Big Girls Need Love, Too: Dating While Fat (And Feminist)
He really makes excellent points, he just does so like an asshole. Taking It All Off: It is amazing how three simple ingredients can transform into such deliciousness! It has since been reheated multiple times and absolutely abused in the microwave and still is pretty creamy. I was really thinking I needed an immersion blender to get the consistency I wanted.
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This is one of my favorite Marcella Hazan recipes, and while it works beautifully with canned tomatoes, I have to say that it is just divine with fresh ones. If someone hates something even if they lose weigh the result will be unhappiness. Thanks for another great share. As an alternative, you can send me the name of your city San Francisco Select one of the following locations via sending it's number 1. If you build muscle, the muscle in turn will burn the fat.
I saw this and wondered how it could be so fabulous. Then I saw where it had been adapted from, and it all made sense. Thanks for the info about the fridge storage! Hi- which all-clad finish you have on your pots? Marcella is a genius, and therefore so are you for sharing the magic…. Somehow I came by this recipe a few years ago not through the internet!
It is just SO so so so good. I make a pile in the summer with fresh tomatoes, freeze and have it in the fridge at all times. Just in case there is a tomato sauce emergency….. I made this for dinner tonight and it was simply divine. I found all the ingredients at Whole Foods. Ok, eating it right now over some penne. The onions add a dimension that just makes the sauce. Made this sauce tonight with Hunts diced tomatoes, salted butter, the onion, and stale speghetti.
Butter makes everything taste better. I like to make something very similar, except I also use heaps of oregano and sometimes a splash of cream or maybe some goat cheese!
My 6 year old who claims not to like onions and takes out of a dish any resemblance of them, kept asking for more helpings of a spaghetti with this sauce. I made it with tomato paste and water instead of whole tomatoes because chunks in the sauce is another issue my kids have.
And no need to discard the onion, because onion cooked in tomato sauce is delish with rice or even just on bread as my husband proved yesterday. Almost no hands on! I unintentionally browned the butter first, I wonder if it made a difference. My favorite tomato sauce so far. I was just wondering if I could use a red onion, instead of a yellow onion?
Well, this is it. Might as well have put ketchup on my noodles and called it a night. We ate them instead of the pasta. The addition of veg makes a brighter-tasting sauce but this sauce is the perfect tomato sauce — mellow and sweet. I made this for dinner last night with linguine, and it was a really good base.
I served it with roasted yellow and red peppers, and crispy bacon bits, as the other half tends not to eat a meal without any kind of meat in it: It is ridiculously simple and ridiculously delicious. I usually triple the recipe and freeze. The tomatoes, at the end of cooking are fabulous.
I usually just take them out of the pot and eat them. That part of my memory must have been erased, what other explanation would there be for me NOT remembering this sauce. I need to try this ASAP. I am so excited to make this sauce. I have multiple food allergies and intolerances, and have recently developed an intolerance to garlic, of all things. I never would think of butter and tomatoes together…got to try this.
Maybe just a smidge of roasted garlic…. What a perfect solution for the picky eaters in my house — all the flavor, but no little chunks! I made this for dinner last night, and I used the leftovers to make your Eggs in Tomato Sauce for breakfast this morning. Perhaps all the raves about this sauce set my expectations too high. Certainly, for the small number of ingredients, the amount of work required, and the overall cost, it was delicious— albeit a little watery. Her method is slightly different dice the onion finely and saute in butter with some garlic, simmer for longer and add the bulk of the butter at the end , but the same result — people go absolutely nuts for it!
I love recipes with such simple ingredients. This is comfort food at its best, and now my own children love it too. This is so serendipitous… I have been reading True Believer by Nicholas Sparks not so good book and this EXACT recipe was talked about in the book and I wondered how could something so simple be so good.
I am going to have to try it now! Additionally, you can control the salt in your dish better. But this recipe looks easy enough and yummy enough that I just might try it! Could you use this as pizza sauce, too? If not, does anyone know what you would add to make it into pizza sauce? This looks very good. Hey, I know this recipe from a book called Bootyfood! We had this sauce over spaghetti last night and loved it. He chops the onion and adds a tsp.
Had this Sunday night over fettucine, and it was marvelous. It sort of gave me a high-brow spagettios flashback, in a very good way. Laura , how is that the same sauce? Because it also has tomatoes in it? This sauce is WAY too bland. I can only imagine the heavenly scent! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I made it last night and have now added it to my favorite recipes list. Any other recipes for 2 year olds?
The onion adds a nice savory flavor and the butter makes it unctuous. I made this last night and it was so damn good. My husband and I were all sorts of quiet eating it. I used a couple of shallots because we were out of everything in out house and egg noodles.
Thanks for the post. I just read a recipe exactly like this in a magazine that advertised it as the pasta sauce for non-cooks. When I saw that it was butter, an onion, and a can of tomatoes, I pffft-ed and promptly flipped the page, because I AM a cook. But now that the Smitten Kitchen has approved, I just might have to try it! I had my 11 year old son make this last night.
It was good but not great. Great to keep the ingredients on hand though to make on those nights when it seems there is nothing to make! Why is it that recipes come to us and basically continue to pop up all over until we are forced to make them? We had pasta last night, but this is a perfect recipe for later this week….
I love recipes like this—turning such a short list of ingredients into something so delicious seems almost like alchemy. Thanks for posting this. In French cuisine it is typical to add unsalted butter to a sauce in order to achieve a velvety texture. This recipe calls for 5T, had it been salted the sauce would be dominated by salt, in turn, drowning out the intricacies of the mellow onion and tomato flavor.
I ate the entire pot in one day. The simple things are best—not that cooking something with such dexterity is so simple! But the ingredients are terrific, fresh, and straightfoward. Which is a beverage. I saw this and started screaming at my boyfriend. In our home this sauce is made with a whole stick of butter and occasionally another onion.
It was the first thing I learned to cook from memory, taught to me by my mom, herself a devotee of Marcela Hazan. We make it quite frequently, often to go alongside roasted chicken legs, and have never had anyone not love it.
Deb to the rescue again! I was just wondering what we were going to have for dinner tonight and here it is.
All ingredients are in the pantry and anything with butter in it has to be good. I LOVE this sauce. I was taught how to make this sauce while I was living in Rome. I add a few whole garlic cloves along with the onion. This is my favorite tomato sauce ever. I made this last night. I was not a believer, really, how could something SO simple taste SO good. I even told the husband that it was something he could make! We poured it over Ziti, layered with fresh mozzarella and wow. I want to make this this weekend for my boyfriend, so I walked over to the Italian Import store here in Victoria BC during my lunch today, but all they had were San Marzano whole peeled tomatoes with Basil.
Should I use these, or opt for some regular brand peeled tomatoes? I can get organic canned tomatoes at my grocery store… Thanks! As it would if you felt like adding it later. For a long time, I have been on a quest to find a great tomato sauce. It sounds as though I may have just hit the jackpot! I, too, am a Parmesan cheese junkie, so I was interested to hear you say that you liked it more without the cheese blasphemy, I tell you.
Love the photo of the dried pasta noodles. Day one as an ab fab pasta sauce and day two as an ab fab soup. For the soup I started with the same ingreds and then added a little dry vermouth and tarragon and blended with the immersion blender.
All you had to do was entice me with five tablespoons of butter, and I was planning to make this for my next pasta night. Oh, this was amazingly good! What I found was that I did have to use my hand-held stick blender to coax the sauce into a more regular consistency, but it was well worth the teensy bit of extra effort. Oh how I miss this long Fusilli. I always bought this instead of regular spaghetti noddles while I lived in Jersey but have never been able to find it since.
I will definitely try this sauce soon. It sounds so simple and delicious. And, I do use whatever type of tomatoes I happen to have. I just made this sauce last night, and even with hum drum tomatoes it was very good. I simmered it a little longer and used a potato masher to get it the constancy I wanted. Very good, was a hit with myself, my husband, and kids ages 2 and 11mo.
The next day I used it for sauce on pizza dough and it was fantastic for that as well!! Recipes like this are pure gold, thank you so much. I got really excited when I read this and made it straight away — it intrigued me as I am on a low budget. I even restrained myself from my instinct of putting garlic in everything, and spices and herbs. I wanted to trust the recipe. However I was quite disappointed — it had a nice taste but really was just tomato.
Why did I think it would be more than the sum of its parts? The left over onions were delicious however. I found it bland but I may try using it as a base for my regular pasta sauce. For those who found it too watery — are you simmering it too low? I found it too watery after simmering it for 45 minutes. I turned it up slightly and 10 minutes later it was perfect. I made this tonight as an easy dinner-for-one while my boyfriend is out of town. A fun, yummy change from the usual olive oil sauce.
I have never seen it sold in the US before. The end result looked a lot like the passata in the bottle. Have you ever tried it? Do you think it would substitute in this recipe? Ended up fixing tonight sans meatballs see comment and it was great. My husband and I cut up some of the cooked onion and ate it alongside the pasta. We must not be Italian purists because we tend to douse our pasta in sauce and used the entire recipe on half a pound of pasta.
Nice introduction to a simple home made sauce. Okay, this recipe finally got to me so I had to make it. Mine was nice and thick, was it the San Marzano tomatoes? Made this for dinner last night.
So tangy and fresh, just perfect really. This is the sauce I have been looking for for half my life, at least. Ever since the first time I had noodles with tomato sauce at this little italian really italian for the first time in my life after being raised on ragu somehow restaurant.
I knew it was simple, but years of searching somehow availed me nothing. My next best version had what I knew was waaaaay too many ingredients. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. This sounds awesome and I will make it tomorrow, but tomato sauce with no garlic?! That was the biggest shock of this post, for me. Has anyone tried making this with fire roasted tomatoes?
Just made this sauce tonight and it was truly amazing! It is my new go-to sauce. Thanks for such a great blog, Deb — lots of yummy recipes and loads of inspiration! So simple, yet sooo good! SO excited to make this for them!!
This was so good. I also am a fan of such simple sauces…they highlight each ingredient so much better than the sauces that have a lot more going on in them.
Beautiful pics here too! Oh, how I love this sauce. I use it in everything from lasagna to polenta pie. I always add about a head of roasted, peeled garlic nearish the end of cooking, which really rounds it out I find it a bit acidic without the garlic and adds an amazing depth of flavor. Where can one find those? Congrats on all your blogging success! I was thinking about sauces yesterday morning!
It is wonderful and amazing! We eat the first batch and I made a second one immediately afterward last night! Used the correct tomatoes. Tasted good on ravioli, and as a shrimp dip, but did not blow anyone away. This was so good! It is now my go-to sauce, I am way more excited about this than I should be!
Made this last night over fresh-bought spinach and ricotta ravioli for a home-alone dinner husband was working late. Licked bowl clean and considered seconds. Called upon every ounce of willpower to put aside remaining half for him. Husband came home, ate, licked the bowl clean, said I am the best wife of ever.
That sauce was so simple, and it kicks ass. I made it yesterday for lunch and finished the rest today for breakfast. So good, I had to stop myself from eating the sauce from the pot while I waited for the pasta. But now I want to do something with those tomato soaked onions. This is the base of how I prepare my Filipino spaghetti!! I add a little bit of ground beef and a bit of sugar …. Thanks for the recipes.
I added meatballs and artichoke hearts I love salty! Am eating right now. Slightly sweet, smooth and so yummy. Tried it and absolutely loved! Next time I will add another onion and a few cloves of garlic and possibly a bay leaf? I do agree, no meat and when I added grated parm- it was way too overpowering.
The sauce is very delicate, just needs something. I love love love this sauce, and I always have some in the fridge. Anything else, though, it really falls flat. Centos are too acidic, and store brands taste like nothing.
This is a prime example of using the best ingredients because there are so few components. Oh my god this sauce was divine! Making this tonight for dinner and it already tastes wonderful! Also am making the southwestern brisket in the crockpot for tomorrow! My house smells so yummy! I love love love love your site and all of your recipes, and the adorable baby is a plus too. I am eating it right now—I thought the butter plus 45 minutes of simmering would turn out to be magic. But this sauce is just basic and very standard.
I was worried that my husband would balk without some sort of protein, so I threw in a pound of peeled shrimp the last 10 minutes and let them cook in the sauce. I rarely follow recipes to the letter, I tend to tinker. I will add, subtract or substitute ingredients depending what I might have on hand or what I think might enhance the final result. However since I had all the ingredients on hand right down to the brand and type of tomatoes I decided to proceed exactly as stated including the no cheese recommendation.
What a wonderful surprise, marvelous! But this truly was a delightful surprise. However I also love to tinker and almost always add in some garlic. And I usuall chop of the onion and keep it in the sauce. Last weekend I had some unexpected company and nothing on hand to serve them. I decided to see if I could do a speedy version of the tomato sauce.
I sauted the onion and garlic in some olive oil, threw in a can of tomatoes and the butter and let that cook for maybe 10 minutes before I pureed it with my immersion blender and served it with some spagehtti and ikea meatballs. Made it tonight, and the Finicky Two even ate it up. Made this tonight, it was fine…not spectacular.
I made this sauce for dinner last night and definitely enjoyed it. As someone who loves a lot of sauce on my pasta, I found that to fully experience the flavors I needed to spoon some extra sauce on the already sauce-tossed noodles. I believe that if slightly tweaked, this would make an excellent pizza sauce.
Perhaps adding something to give it some extra tang? Okay, we made the sauce and loved it. I thought it was okay, but my family loved it so its keeper. Added a little sugar, more salt and simmered it for a lot longer than was recommended.
Added basil and took out some of the onion and added 2 cloves of garlic. What is really great about this sauce is that you can make it your own. Added turkey meatballs on the top after putting the sauce on the noodles.
My two daughters and husband inhaled it! I had all the ingredients on hand and the sauce simmered as I was finishing up my homework. The sauce was velvety and luscious. It tastes like actual tomatoes unlike so many jarred brands. Let me preface my comment with this information: I have never, ever, liked tomato sauce. No matter who made it, or what jar it came in. If I -had- to have it, everything but the kitchen sink got thrown in to disguise the taste — broccoli, carrots, hamburger, sugar, pepper….
But I was actually craving spaghetti, so when I found this recipe I had to give it a shot. I can no longer say I hate tomato sauce. I ate it with gluten free pasta, slow cooked chicken, gf flat bread, and roasted broccoli… and ate several slices of the onion too.
Yes, this is a basic marinara type tomato sauce but so refreshingly simple and delicious! I am usually the type to slave over a sauce with 20 steps and another 20 ingredients. This is such a fantastic simple sauce for when there is no time or no need for a fussy sauce! Thanks for such a nice go to pasta topping! Oh and my kiddos licked their bowls! I made this last night and it was so good…. I even saved the onion to have with my lunch one day this week. It was husband approved too.
I worried it would be too simple and plain but this was great! Thanks for another wonderful recipe! I live in Milan, Italy and made this sauce for a room full of Italians last night with huge success. I too made this sauce last night and have to admit I was skeptical. No basil or parsley? I passed the recipe on to both sons and 8 friends. Oh my my my! I made this in the morning. Had to use salted butter as I had no unsalted. The tomatoes had no added salt though.
After he left, we boiled up some bowties and my husband and I devoured the entire pan of sauce minus a little to take to work today! I feel like a real chef now that you mention my basic tomato sauce in your beautiful and always inspiring blog.
Thank you, I feel flattered! Finally made it last night and as many have stated, it was delicious. This will definitely stay in my repertoire of easy, ingredients-on-hand recipes. Thanks for posting, Deb! So I lopped off 5 Tbs of butter, hacked an onion in half, and went for it. Oh but they did!
Sad, wilted strips of basil. Will definitely go for plain tomatoes next time. I was inspired to try this last night, as I was bored and wanted to cook. This was fantastic— super simple and super delicious. I made this exactly as directed and yes it is delicious! I was skeptical as I like spicy tomato sauce with red pepper flakes and lots of garlic. I wanted to give it a try though.
I have seen other versions of this sauce where people put some full cloves of garlic in and then fish them out like the onion. I might try this next time. Instead of parmesan I added a chiffonade of basil. This is my first time posting here, even though I have made a lot of recipes from this site.
Even my bf knows smitten kitchen as my laptop is always on the counter while cook recipes from here. Thanks for making my day with new recipes. I am giving it a try just now, but I have to admit I am almost afraid it works out great, I adore olive oil…. I added fresh basil, garlic and hot pepper at the last minute, and I am glad I did.
I made this my first tomato sauce ever! I may never buy a jar of pasta sauce again. The only change I made was that I let it simmer on the stove for longer than 45 minutes, so it cooked down quite a bit and just barely covered about 7 oz of spaghetti.
I also stood at the counter and ate most of the onion while I waited for the bread to come out of the oven. Thanks always for inspiring me to get into my kitchen! I lay on the sofa with my son in the adjacent room and gave him instructions and he made it like a pro, even adding sliced garlic, a dried garden chile, and going out in the rain and picking fresh rosemary and oregano.
This little sauce has turned out to be fabulous in more ways than one! I have been making this one almost half my life, and it could be the most amazing thing ever! Marcella came into my life about 15 years ago, and she has never disappointed. I have no deficiency of her enlightment in my life, nonetheless, it almost made me giddy when i ran across this post! I have much respect and admiration for what you do; thank you so much!
I just made this and it was amazing! I have the kitchen aid pasta press buy it! First time commenter, though I have been consumed with your sight for nearly a year. I have made TONS of the recipes on the blog, and continued with this one. Delicious, and super easy. Has anyone else noticed this? Love, love, love your blog. Will become a regular in my recipe repetoire.
Did we learn nothing from our Depresson-era grandparents?? I have a big family, so I doubled the sauce recipe it doubles beautifully, BTW and pulled out the onions and stuck them in a Tupperware in the fridge. The next morning I diced a big chunk into my eggs. Tonight for dinner I diced up another into the stuffed baked potatoes.
They are like onions poached in tomato juice and butter. I have to admit that I am floored by the attention this recipe gets! The differences… we dice the onion and leave it in, and when there are meat-eaters involved, add in a pound of cooked, crumbled ground beef. I think what causes so many people to be surprised about the flavor is the lack of sugar?
Had this on baked polenta — make up some simple polenta with broth, milk, and butter, then spread it on a jelly roll pan use cooking spray first. Bake minutes, until the edges are crispy. I did a bunch of onions and mushrooms on the side, and had to stop myself after 3 servings! Love the blog so so much!
This sauce looks great, just one question. Hi Lexi — Absolutely. You might want to double this sauce recipe, just to be on the safe side, no harm in having extra. I have made this the past two nights. It is so simple and soooooooo tasty.
Thanks for another hit Deb! I was a bit sceptical about this recipe because of the small list of ingredients, however, I was intrigued and tried it lat night. As the butter started to melt, the sauce became creamy and had a lovely rich smell.
We all loved it! Will definitely make this again and again! I made this last night with some sturdy penne pasta, and I feel in love. I had to clean out my bowl with bread because I could not fathom leaving any behind. Once I was done eating, cleaning, putting everything away… I made another batch… at Made this last night.
Everyone gobbled it up. One last comment on this sauce: I am amazed and looking forward to trying this in the next week. And to add to Amy J on jarred sauce prices increasing…the jars are now narrower and last year contained 26oz and now most are 24oz! Thank you Deb for a great site-will contact my sis and others who will love this site. It tastes so much like the homemade tomato sauce my Italian grandma used to make. She would use fresh tomatoes from the garden and add fennel seeds and Italian sausage, but her secret was using butter instead of olive oil.
I made your recipe last night, and it was delicious—I will never buy a jar of pasta sauce again! Keep your head up lady! He should invest in a long rifle and a sports car to alleviate the lack of…. Yes, you are affecting others. Almost everybody can get not-fat. Almost nobody can get rich in a capitalist economy since the game is rigged. That is the ain difference. Men like most young not-fat women and guess what, everybody gets a chance at being young.
The opposite is not true. To make the dating game easier, men must have a wider selection sinc it is so difficult for them to make a nice lady like them.
Fat people are making things worse without any benefit for themselves. Start your change today. You make it very clear that you are aware of what the root of the problem is. Weight loss is painfully simple. Eat less, move more. Bring an iPod, cellphone, etc. I use to be Lbs than one day a Brazilian coworker told me to lose weight and fast. That day I decided to change my diet. I stopped eating fast food, candy, snack treats, and soda. I started learning to cook meals from scratch and would not eat anything I did not make myself.
I made a rule if I wanted soda, candy or such I would have to make it at home. I also started walking to work which was 5 miles away instead of taking the bus.
On my days off I would walk to the beach and along the way would pick up bottles and cans. I went from to 90 in 6 months time. I went from not being able to walk down the stairs to being able to walk 15 miles without huffing and puffing. Now I eat what I cook and cannot stand restaurant food or prepared foods. I make my own pasta, soda, cheese, candy, pastries, sauces, breads, and anything else I want.
Not only does my waistline thank me but so does my wallet. Now I cannot gain weight if I wanted to. This is probably the most ignorant and stupid article I have ever read! You should probably die in a basement somewhere… The world is a better place with out you in it.
He speaks the truth as I have traveled to many countries with low obesity rates. The beautiful women really are much more approachable. Whether that is because they do not have toxic attitudes due to culture or because there are less fat women around therefore more competition is up for debate.
Depending on the country they are either thin because of the more organic food there, or because its third world and men get to eat first in the household.
Furthermore men treat a lot of their women like crap. What is your point? Your rant has nothing to do with my comment. The world is a more sustainable place without the hefty carbon footprint of obese western women. Hell, even their hybrid vehicles are rendered less efficient due to bonus cargo.
Uneven tire wear, lower battery stamina…just a sad situation across the board…wow, just wow. Is see that you failed to respond to the article, beyond simply disagreeing with it. Your picture is ugly… Please get plastic surgery ugly black fucker.
I hate when I see these girls with beautiful features and awesome personalities and they have destroyed the chance for us to have anything by being overweight. Writing articles like this is just a way for him give back to the world.
Because you are wrong. Being a white knight will no get you laid btw. And luckily, is reversable, it can be cured. We know youre not a white knight, you just want to hit it and quit it and lie in the process. And leave Onion alone. Everyone has a right to speak up in here. I feel sorry for all the ignorant people who agree with you. Its people like you who make women feel poorly about themselves.
Every body is built differently, not every body can whatever body you think they should have. This is by far the dumbest piece of garbage. Ow dear, just blame your genes, such an easy excuse! The main problem is nobody runs in your family! Hahahahhah actually no fuck you it does …, having the mind set that you need food as a comfort tool is genetic.
Having a shitty metabolism is genetic so fuck you cunt. If it would be genetic, how come the prevalence of obesity is on the rise so hard? Hardly angels, many women are. The problem is that men who like curvy or fat women I realize there is a difference are SO ostracized or mocked in US society that they never admit it.
Now — how do we deal with the problem of making the world a better place by ridding it of superficial, cruel assholes like you?? There are more men under 35 living with their parents than any generation in recent memory. Get your lazy, unambitious, socially mal-adjusted ass off the couch and leave the house and socialize. Take a look in the mirror before you decide what kind of girl you deserve. Oh yeah, and get a damn clue. My passions are adventure and women.
Wow, I think your fat girl hate is akin to homophobia, or racism. Why put so much effort into hating an entire group of people? Really, why do you even care if someone is fat or not? Great job internet, and well done morons! Who the fuck are you to decide what people should be attracted to and not. You are selfish and think every other man has to agree with you just because you have a dick between your legs. Dont try and make it seem like you care because you dont.
Seriously you just insulted men and women. But you do seem to think he whole world does or should live by those attractions. The world or fat women or anything else does not owe you that. Are you two attracted to each other? Seems odd, since you have both been agreeing with each other for how long? God, this page is full of so much discrimination. I hate to say this, but not all foreign women in low fat countries are humble. Some of them just want a rich American.
Some simply want what they think is a rich American. I mean if you are tring to go after someone who degrades who then maybe they are not the best person? Everybody is entitled to their preference. I had once really liked this sexy guy in my college class I would always smile a him, say hi he would ignore me or talk my friend who was pretty much a barbie, of course I got sick of the attempts that lead me no where, so I moved on to my current boyfriend, and we all met up to get lunch and once he saw my boyfriend everything changed, he texted me, he would go out his way to get me a coffee and would even say hi before I walked in the door.
Sorry for the rant, my point being have confidence in yourself, not every hot guy will like every sexy, fat,ugly or pretty girl that walks into the room. If you do not like your body change it. You want to be healthy and happy.
Wish the best to those who are trying!! But being obese is naturally not attractive to men and having relationships with the opposite sex is a psychological necessity.
From everybody working out and getting in shape, the states would be a much happier place for everybody. Actually people were naturally attracted to fatter women because it meant that they were able to survive. You make a great point about obese populations tipping the scale and making hot girls vain but you un-empathetically go on to blame this frustration on the overweight women rather than the smug skinny bitches and the drooling men who put them on pedestals.
Obesity is a huge problem pun intended but morons like you have no idea how to constructively understand or deal with it. Deep down you just wish every girl was attractive so that pretty girls would be more statistically inclined to give a shit about you. Acting all funny or big and bad behind a computer. The internet was molded by trolls and people who enjoy fucking with people like you.
Pointing it out is still feeding a troll. Being butthurt by them in any way is feeding. You are a lesser mind in the eyes of the internet. How was he suppose to voice his opinion go on national TV and talk this is not cyber bullying just stating the facts.
I am here to give testimony on how I got my husband back. My husband left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful.
Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good and, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won.
I used the spell he gave me and the next day I received a call from my darling husband Thomas last month. He apologized and came back to me. He even gave me 10,USD as a means of compensating me. Even worse the rate that you burn calories at when you exercise goes down. And unfortunately this effect can last for up to 6 years. This is part of the reason so many people lose weight and then they gain it back. If more people really understood how this works then maybe people would be realistic about how they attempt to lose weight.
Latest science shows that in fact, when you lose weight, you have a window of opportunity to lose more and keep it off by properly listening to hunger cues. When you first start exercising and counting calories, you wont get more hungry, but less. You should listen to this and eat only to appetite. But most people are conditioned to three meals a day and snacks. Once you are obese, you have made changes to your genes. Latest science says, dont put off dealing with weIght gain.
Not everyone that is fat is lazy or eats poorly and doesnt exercize. There are several things that cause rapid weight gain making it extremely difficult to lose. Hypothyroidism, birth control, polycystic ovarian disease and many more things that some people have no control over. Then theres people like you with your disgusting remarks towards overweight people.
How the hell do you think that makes them feel? Some people are so depressed from being overweight they try killing themselves. If more people- both men and women- took better care of themselves, the world would be a happier, healthier, less excessive and whiny place. Hypo causes weight gain.
Hyper causes weight loss. Try doing a little reading yourself. Your not only wrong about a certain disease, you misunderstand an entire prefix to many words containing hyper and hypo.
What the fuck is your problem? You had an opportunity there to constructively educate and support another person and you chose bullying and shame. Jesus Christ develop some accountability. We would all starve to death without GMOs. Are you living in ?
Fat people just prefer it, preferably from a trough or feed bag. Actually Dan, you present a very narrow minded viewpoint of obese people. Why are active kids larger than kids just 40 years ago?
Because I am living in and the differences in what kids ate in the 70s and the numbers of fat kids as opposed to what kids are eating today and the numbers of fat kids are highly disproportionate.
Stop fat hating and attempt to solve the problem. Here is the solution. The only carbohydrates aka sugar that you should be consuming is from vegetables. Low-Fat these days equals added sugar because foods low in fat or zero fat food takes like crap. But in all fairness there are areas in America where you literally cannot buy fresh produce: People have to drive or get on a train to a large supermarket…so at best, they have to get frozen veggies to last til next time, and this is not ideal at all.
Hence poorer people are fatter. They have to grab food while they can and American food is too high in sugar and size. I dont like the whole fat positive thing but I do see some people are in a bind. Still, it shouldnt be glorified and called beautiful.
BTW, author, women have lives apart from men. Even if they are sweet and feminine, their mission in life isnt to make you happy. Women want mostly what men want: And I say this as a woman called sweet, feminine and beautiful all her life. However, I do sort of get why the US men would be turned off by these loud-mouthed fat types who are ruining feminism. Please bear in mind, feminism wasnt supposed to be like they have made it, with their foul mouths and utter lack of allure.
Oh shut up with your feministic dribble. And in order to do this even if you are not Christian, it is normal to marry anywyas and most people want to , a woman has to take care of herself so she can look decent for he man and vice versa, but to a lesser extent for a man since women arnt as visual as men.
Agree, that women should keep themselves looking good. Outrageous to marry and just let go. All I said was, be aware some people are so poor or hardworking, they can get fresh food: Can you even read, or are you the type hat does TL;DR? When the gorgeous muscles of the husband start to vanish under couch-sitting fat,. I am just being honest. And plenty often, they are screwing that guy. Dont ever mistake what women say for their real feelings. Its only shallow when women do it.
I have learned its useless. This is assuming quality healthcare If any is available to them right? Sounds like your just to lazy to apply empathy to the process…the gym does not fix mental sloth. You people are just looking for something to yack about.
I take my meds and I make it by fine. Fat people are just too goddam lazy to walk to the pharmacy too. My childhood friend struggled with being a bit heavyset since childhood, despite diets, working out, playing sports. Why is that funny rto you? I find it quite frankly sad and disturbing. But just take a look at the high percentage of obesity. Such a high percentage is not caused by these things. If they are depressed they should get their ass up and develop a plan to reach their dream body.
If you have never been obese or dealt with obesity I think you should have no say in the matter or be able to judge someone who is. Producing too much testosterone would make it easier to build, muscle, no?
I think many people who label themselves fat or obese are not fat or obese at all. Misty, have you ever gone to an American Restraunt or burger joint and observed what the typical American eats in one setting? What you will observe most of the time is that the typical American is eating an entire burger, along with fryes, a huge supersize me Coke, and a desert.
And their Coke should be substituted with something like water or at least a mix of half water and half soda or half lemonade and half water. Secondly, the typical American is gulping down fast food instead of eating more healthy.
That being said is perfectly legitimate to hate fat people if one wants to. My name is tucker stacey. This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.
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He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. Trust is truly a real spell caster. He is the only answer to your problem and make you feel happy in your relationship. But fatties are responsible. They are the only lazy asses in the formula. Everyone else actively works to improve themselves and as a direct result, makes the world a better place. How a person improves themselves is entirely subjective.
We all have preferred traits that we are attracted to, but they are different for everyone. And we are all entitled to define that for ourselves. I am not fat. My mother is between us in weight.
Yes, it is much harder to be fit with this issue, down right discouraging at times. Diet is crucial, and exercise even more so. The difference between us three is our motivation to be fit.
You need to weight train honey. If you build muscle, the muscle in turn will burn the fat. I burn more calories than I eat, I follow the paleo diet and eat nothing processed, no starches, or anything with sugar. I do cardio, I have an active job an occupational therapist, I stand while my co-workers sit on stools, I weight train. Some of is have more trouble than others with PCOS, because we are all different.
I am glad that some of you with PCOS are thin. Not every fat person is a pig over stuffing themselves with twinkles and pie. Mird is right, sort of. Adding muscle will help burn the fat, but it is often best to balance the weight training and the cardio rather than work on just one or the other. Ignore anyone who gives you dirty looks or talks down to you for trying to better yourself. The only carbs that should be consumed are from vegetables.
Up your protein and also your dietary fats olive oil, nuts, salmon, etc…. And your life must be so successful. Its people like you that make this world a living hell.! You done taking out your personal issues on random people? The calm, rational adults are trying to talk. Fatbitchessuck Who the fuck do you think you are? Calling Alice, Fatlice, There are sicknesses out there that prevent people from losing weight, or even trying.
Ur such a bully, and one total troll, i really HATE people like you. Your the reason why this world is CRAP! Yes I feel better now. Yes i forgot all skinny people are healty. Wake up people this article was written by a not so attractive, not so successful guy who thinks he deserves someone who looks better than him. Anorexics and drug users have mental issues. The person who wrote this article is obviously a self conscious, uneducated, loser. If you truly believe this shit I feel terribly sorry for you.
I hope someday something horrible happens to you, something that makes you feel so much pain and embarrassment that you hide away in a pit of your own self loath.
Your a worthless human being and you should be ashamed of yourself. I too have never seen an anorexic I find attractive. So no overweight person has EVER had mental issues? This is insane 1 Depression drugs often contribute to obesity 2 Birth control often contributes to obesity 3 genetics contribute to obesity 4 Greed has nothing to do with weight, health, or physical appearance.
Greed is a attribute independent of the body, though potentially influenced by it. Plenty of small people are greedy. Plenty of large people are greedy. Plenty of people are greedy. Weight indicates nothing, it barely indicates habits.
Some people have a genetic predisposition to developing lung cancer. This really pisses me off, until I turned 14 I was slim and athletic, I was in many sports teams and I loved gymnastics but then I started to get depression, anxiety, bullied, sleep paralysis and other issues including mental ones.
People would throw mouldy yoghurt on me and I had a traumatic experience. Very similar to my experience. I used to receive abuse on a daily basis when I put weight on in my early teens. Deep down they all despise women. A woman only needs to be a few pounds overweight before she starts receiving the most disgusting verbal abuse which has a profound affect on her, mentally. But then again, there is a sickness where people, no matter what they eat, or how much they eat, are obese.
My cousin has this sickness. So she stopped eating for three whole days, only drinking water and excercising. She had to go to the hospital because of that. No one goes to the hospital after not eating for only three days. Your fat cow cousin was obviously lying about what happened. No one ever seems to put a name to it. Who the fuck was talking about anorexic people? You mean normal sized humans or actual people who are too skinny?
I never see a planet sized ham beast over-eating grapes or broccoli. You wanna binge eat? Eat some fucking carrots. Ok so your saying that even though I work out days a week 2hrs a night and compete in powerlifting competitions and have set multiple lifting records and even though i eat and love vegetables including carrots, that its pretty much in my head and that its not a genetic issue even though I do have a genetic hormone inbalance disorder that affects my metabolism and screws up my whole body?
At least I am trying to fix my problems where as you think bringing other people down justifies yours. You are clearly uneducated on such matters and the world would do better without your harmful and simple minded imput. Just remember that two can play. I really hope I never meet you in real life Jody … because even though I am anti violence I think I might beat the crap out of you for your ignorant remarks.
But a few years ago I broke an ankle so badly it is screwed together. This makes it hard for me to exercise so I have put on weight even though I eat very healthy. Shut up fat fuck. Awwww you broke your ankle years ago. What a pathetic excuse for being a lard ass. Calories in vs calories out, not complicated.
Who cares about their contributions to society and their more superior brain power…. It takes an hour and a half of cardio to burn off a large coca-cola. Cardio is not meant for losing weight. It is intended to increase heart health. Diet is meant for losing weight. I could have 2 broken ankles and still lose weight if I wanted. God supposedly passes ultimate judgment as to whether you can enter heaven or not.
That is very different from a person exercising good judgment decision making , or voicing a helpful opinion on such, on what is healthy or not based upon their experience of life using the brain they were blessed with — that is for that very purpose. If you want to distort the true meaning of words into that which they are not then I suggest you educate yourself better. Freedom of speech is the most important freedom of all, as with such there is no way to safeguard any other type of freedom.
HAHA i dont work out , and I eat fast food left and right and am in great shape. They had to eat twice as much and be twice as lazy to get the same size.
I suggest you look up something called Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome. I know women with it who work their asses off at the gym, and eat very healthy.
But most people 30 years ago had a different lifestyle and the FDA standards were different. That affects like what percentage of the population now?
Also, humans do not need carbohydrates to survive. We only need protein and dietary fat. The only carbs we should be consuming comes from vegetables and only because vegetables have very low carbohydrates and very high vitamins and minerals. Actually many women including myself and a lot of other women I have met at work or school have it its just not talked about very much and is a lot bigger problem than most would think.
I live with and have to deal with it on a daily basis and its also genetic being passed down from mother to daughter some have it worse than others. I wouldnt wish it upon any woman.
I have polycystic ovarian syndrome and yes it does affect us in that way. Its a genetic hormone imbalance disorder that affects our metabolism and we produce too much testosterone making it extremely hard to lose weight.
Iam a powerlifter who has competed in competitions over 5years now I work out days a week 2hrs a night and some times twice a day when o was in college and I love sugar free protein bars over candy and like almost every vegetable and I am still obese. Maybe for men, but not for many women. Many women have various situations that may affect the way our body changes. Men should really not speak on the subject. People have different bodies. Yeah, some people may be more sensitive to gaining fat, that is not valid as an excuse to become obese.
They may need to work harder to achieve the same goal but this applies to both men and women alike. Moreover this applies to other goals in life as well e. Umm… Hate to rain on your parade, but there are many statistics to back up what people are saying about gender hormones, do your homework before pouring your haterade all over the place.
Gender hormones and non vegetable based carbohydrates. Just remember, gender is only one part of a bigger equation. Butt out and do some research you might actually learn something. The body begins to think its starving and then proceeds to hold onto those calories. The best ways to lose weight include Eating smaller meals more often eating less is generally bad if unbalanced. Drinking primarily water Figure out the sort of diet a body needs. Some people need high protein diets others may need high fiber to really begin slimming down.
The general thing is smaller portions and more light snacks. I cannot stress that enough…also steamed chicken is like some bland ass white people food if I ever heard it.
Most importantly find exercise you enjoy. If someone hates something even if they lose weigh the result will be unhappiness. Its more important to be happy for yourself than to be miserable for everyone else. I honestly think dancing is the best work out for people.
The gym is often a space to show off and it is very public and uncomfortable for people. Dancing is so active and it can be done alone or with a partner. And…some people will always be big unless they are starving themselves. They assume a person is unhealthy and has absolute control over the size of their body. Plenty of male and female body builders are heavy set without being muscular. Some people are built to carry a lot of weight in their thighs and hips, but have tiny waists others are short and squat so they carry a lot around their middle.
That was my point. As I said there are many reasons why some people are large…not the least of which is people liking it. Personally the thought of being skinny is upsetting to me.
Not to mention eating healthy consistently is so expensive. The cheapest things to buy are pasta and rice. Near where I live the hardest things to find can be fresh fruit and veggies. Takes less time to cook, lasts longer, etc. Losing weight is a choice, but you have to contextualize those choices.
Tons of people lose weight every year and they gain it right back. I just hate articles like this. At the least people could stop lying about that. They had an amazing time on the date, they continued to message, and he asked her out for the following Saturday early in the week.
Before the date she told me she was a little unsure about this guy. So they had a passionate night together and continued to text one another but something had shifted…. My friend told me that she was waiting for him to ask her out for that Saturday night because she had purchased tickets to a booze cruise and thought that would make a fun date.
They were still in contact; he would still text her messages full of sexual innuendos. Suddenly, their relationship went from elegant Saturday night dates to random 2 am hookups. He never texted her earlier than 11pm and while he was nice and sweet and all that when they hung out, all he wanted was to fool around and sometimes order in food and fool around.
I stood silently as the whole thing started to unravel. Also, my friends sometimes get mad at me for not giving them the answers they want so in order to keep the peace, I will stay mum until things get dire. And when they did, my friend finally called me up and said: What did I do wrong? But even still, I told her flat out that she slept with him too soon. It was a pretty open and shut case, probably one of the easiest relationship questions brought to me.
I tried to stifle my laughter at the absurdity of her statement. What did you actually know about this guy? Do you know what his ultimate goals are? What makes him happy? What his weak points are? And therein lies the problem. She slept with him before they developed any sort of a real connection. They were still in the casual getting to know one another phase.
When it comes to sleeping with a guy, the quantity of dates is an arbitrary measure of the state of your relationship. What matters is the quality of the time you spend together on these dates. The guy my friend was dating never really invested in her. Yeah, he was attracted and somewhat interested, but after sex was in the mix, he lost interest in pursuing things further. It means he cares about you and respects you as a person. Any article you read on this subject will tell you to wait before sleeping with a guy, the longer the better.
Having sex with a guy is not enough to make him want to commit. Men do not get into relationships purely based on physical attraction and a man wanting to sleep with you is not a measure of his actual feelings for you. Before sleeping with him you have to really realize that having sex with him will not guarantee a relationship or any sort of commitment. It seems obvious, and yet, so many women get tripped up in this area.
The decision of when to sleep with a guy is unique to every person and every relationship. Maybe the answer is a lot simpler than you suspect. Big boys see sexytime the same way little boys see playtime. Little boys will play with other boys quite happily but not every playmate is going to become a best bud for life. If it was required to become best friends first before any play could occur…little boys would be highly motivated to form a best friend attachment.
It would be very, very important to every little boy. Women want there to be some specific strategy whereby this can happen in an era of easy hookups. Following the advice in this article only gets you in the friend zone, at least with any guy that has plenty of opportunities.
The problem is with women in general, not men. Guys are very simple. Since having sex is natural feeling for both male and female, why cant both parties enjoy it without any form of connection.
Its not all the time a woman want deep connection with a man but she might like him just for sex only, to enjoy the moment with him and let him go. This is so off base its not funny. Could it be that a lot of things were great about you, but having sex with you was not??. All woman are not equal when it comes to that.. If everything adds up and we have sex and that dont line up, guess what… next. Stop holding your vagina as something special, its not.
Have sex, enjoy it and if it turns into something more than great, if not.. Thanks to all the guys….. I think i now have the truth. There is really no big deal about it.
Relationships are not about being the one in control. My absolute favorite relationship therapist advises women to wait for sex until you have a commitment from a man.
This is a sure way to see if men are interested in you or what they can get from you! A says that men compromise by giving men women a commitment, and women compromise by giving men sex.
If you give up sex before commitment, you have no bargaining power. This is true, what you say. It does change the dynamic of an early relationship. Sex is a very important part of a relationship; but it is only part. Will you truly enjoy one another after the height of passion has leveled out?
Be yourself and enjoy who he is? Good sex changes how realistically you see him. It was a good way to go at that point in my life…. Sexuality is a private matter and no one should make you feel guilty about it…I know plenty of relationships that started with sex and now they are married with kids! OMG I want to give you a hug! No one should feel guilty for having sex too soon, thinking that they have lost a great guy because they had sex. A man who just wants sex will leave you after he gets what he wants.
Not always the best way, but good enough for those horny times. If you enjoy spending time with him, great — you spend more time with him. In most cases on this site, I see women acting as if getting a relationship was going to solve all their problems, make them happy, make them feel complete, make them feel worthy, make them feel good about themselves, etc….
Please stop spreading ignorance. Sabrina Alexis is spot-on in this article. One, you use huge gender based american generalizations. There are many differences in people and vibes, and gender does nothing to define the manner in which someone wants to relate to the other.
Please read Margret mead for more insight on this. I think you missed a very key insight. The other part is I noticed this horseshit of texting as a means of communication. Texting contains less than 8 percent of the way we communicate. Otherwise you had some nice insights and I appreciate you trying to discuss this topic. I wish you love, mercy, and compassion.
As a man, I can say that she screwed up BAD with this guy.. How about marrying your sweety before you have sex with him. I can promise you that you will find ways to pleasure one another if you keep an open mind and do some reading together. The commitment will tide you over any rough patches until you figure it all out. I usually know after 5 min whether I want to have sex with a woman and after h if a relationship is in the picture. I went to a college with 7 catholic girls for every guy.
I was flat out asked for that favour several times. I fell once, because I really liked the girl. The reason I was able to so easily resist, is I knew that the girls would want more out of sex than I was willing to give.
Sex was easy to get, love was much harder and I am not an exploiter. I am married to my best friend, and we are looking to a wonderful retirement after four beautiful children.
Girls, wait for it. A real man who is worth your time, will want to spend his with you even without sex. I knew my wife for 3 years as a good friend before it dawned on me to date her. I guess, many realize the truths expressed here. Which makes more sense at a younger age. I have been trying to explain this theory to guys I date and my friends. And I can feel pieces of their soul. I linked to this article today, so I wanted to share my thoughts on when to sleep with a guy…. The only cautionary rule is that you do not sleep with a guy because you think it will score you brownie points with him or somehow get you closer to a relationship with him.
I am totally confused as there are so many differing opinions. It seems we are really attracted to each other and it seems we both want a serious relationship.
But it is obvious he wants sex but i am too scared to do this too quickly. Any advice would be great! Frankly, I think they and many women living in big cities , are just going along with what they think the guy wants or what they think everyone is doing and the 3rd date is just an arbitrary standard.
Sabrina, Nice advice, but it rides in the face of common female behavior in the 21st Century, the feminist movement, and the messaging found in most popular music and media culture, and spring break, LOL.
Women today are very aggressive, they know few boundaries. They see successful males as trophies, just as males see beautiful women as trophies. Women want to be able to brag to their girlfriends about the men they get just as men do about the women they get; this is nothing new. And women often use sex as a lure to get the man they want… And most men will not say no. Keeping a man is a different story.
Sex, and how soon I copulate with a woman matters little. What matters most are things that have nothing to do with sex. Does she make me laugh? Am I proud to be with her? Is she a person of good character?
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